I asked a smart man, so smart he applied to be on Jeopardy, what word he would use to describe me now that he had gotten to know me. His response after I asked him to pause and reflect on why he would be choosing the word he would chose. Once he moved forward his… Read More


At this point of your life can you decipher between needs and wants? I found myself answering a question the other day that was simply asked “Do you want something? Since you don’t want chocolate?” My response “I have everything I need” followed by “I can’t remember the last time I said that ….” -I… Read More Seperate


I’ve come to a point where I have no name for him. It used to be asshole, mother fucker, fucking idiot. The list went on and on. Now I’m simply grateful. Grateful the universe gave me him to have 3 amazing kids. Helped me raise my daughter from a previous marriage. There were good times… Read More Grateful

It Is Ok

Over the last 6 months my life has been turned upside down, upside right, then upside down again then upside right. Rightfully so. Lifestyle changes, family changes, and personal growth. I took some time for myself and paused and wrote myself an “it is ok” letter. For those of you that know me know I… Read More It Is Ok